Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Chapter 8 (First Half)

Friendship & Love

Close Relationships ~ are those that are important, interdependent, & long lasting.

  • They come in many forms. family, friends, work, romantic relationships.
  • You will spend a lot of time & energy maintaining a relationship.

Internet Relationships

  • Has became very popular for communicating and meeting people.
  • It 's diminishing of face to face interactions.

Initial Encounters ~ 3 Factors

  • Proximity ~ refers to geographic, residential, and other forms of spatial closeness.
  • Familiarity ~ mere exposure effect or an increase in positive feelings toward a novel stimulus (person) based on frequent exposure to it.
  • Physical Attractiveness ~ plays a major role in initial face to face encounters.

The Matching Hypothesis ~ proposes that people of similar levels of physical attractiveness gravitate toward eachother.

Parental Investment Theory ~ which maintains that a species mating patterens depend on what each sex has to invest - in the way of time, energy, and survival risk - to produce and nurture offspring.

Reciporcal Linking ~ refers to liking those who show that they like you.

Established Relationships

Realtionship Maintenance ~ involves the actions and activities used to sustain the desired quality of a realationship.

Interdependence or social exchange theory postulates that interpersonal realtionships are governed by perceptions of the rewards and costs exchanged in interactions.

Comparison Level ~ is a personal standard of what constitutes an acceptable balance of rewards and costs in a relationship. *** for alternatives, or one's estimation of the available outcomes from alternative realtionships.

Investments ~ or things that people contribute to a realtionship that they cant get back if the realationship ends.

Friendship

  • They give you help in times of need, advice and consolation when needed.

Romantic Love

Sexual Orientation ~ refers to a person's preference for emotional and sexual relationships with individual's of the same gender, the other gender or either gender.

Heterosexism~ or the assumption that all individuals and realtionships are heterosexual.

Theories of Love

Intimacy ~ refers to warmth, closeness, and sharing in a relationship.

Passion ~ refers to the intense feelings ( both positive and negative ) experienced in love relationships, including sexual desire.

Commitment ~ involves the decision and intent to maintain a relationship in spite of the difficulties and costs that may arise.

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